Friday, September 06, 2013

BLOWJOB FOR BEGINNERS : A SHALLOW SISTER'S DATING WORKSHOP


BLOWJOBS FOR BEGINNERS : A SHALLOW SISTER’S DATING WORKSHOP

Let me begin by reminding you that I am the self appointed Goddess of Suction. 

I have made blowjobs an art form. 


What you will need.

Retractable teeth.
At no point use your teeth or even allow the penis to be anywhere near them.

Lips.
Use them.  They must curl over your teeth to encase them in soft wetness.

Tongue:
Explore with it, tease with it.

Saliva.
Lubricate.  Keep the penis moist.

A man.
As a test model ensure he’s sans pubic hair.  This is not a workshop on removing public hair from the back of your throat without throwing up.

Confidence.
You will gain this as you get better.  With courage and practice you will never feel you don’t know what to do with the dick that’s presented to you for eating.

Ears.
Keep your ears open.  Listen to what he says with or without words.  You won’t be able to ask what he wants since you should have a mouth full of dick.

Do not watch porn for pointers.
Blowjobs on porn sites are theatre.

Keeping your teeth away.
Work slowly at first so you can concentrate on keeping your teeth sheathed.  Your lips should kiss the tip of the penis, then open, not to bare teeth but to move around them.

Lubrication: all you need is to have the penis hit the back of your throat a few times to ignite your saliva glands and use that to lubricate. 

An uncircumcised penis you still need to lubricate but you have the help of foreskin that will move with your hand.  But at times you also need the buffer of saliva between the foreskin and your hand.

With a circumcised penis you will need to lubricate well for total sensual experience (and avoid chaffing).

OK Begin:

Make sure you are in a comfortable position. One you can maintain for a while. Ensure both hands are free.  One can guide the penis to the angle you want it to be at and prevent it slapping back every time your mouth disengages.  You can also use it to apply pressure on the base of the penis, gently, play with his balls in a rolling motion. Move to the area between his balls and anus (perineum) to gently apply pressure or to push a finger up his arse. But all this to be tackled later in a master class.

The Tease:
Use your tongue to play with the slit at the tip. Use it to whip lick the underside of his helmet especially the hard piece of skin that attaches it to the foreskin (or what's left of it). Use your tongue to roll around the helmet.  Sometimes to lick your way up or down his shaft. To lick at his balls. To lick at the base of his penis. Sometimes lick from his scrotum up the entire length of his penis. The wetness you leave behind will cool and prickle with new sensations for him. Consider either, gently, cradling his balls in your hand as you lick and gently suck or taking one of them into your mouth. But we gentle. For godsake be gentle. If he’s shaved or waxed (would any man take waxing?) then you can truly give him a feast.

Initially move your mouth over the helmet while you use your hand to effectively masturbate him.  Make sure it’s lubricated.  With each stroke (or every third stroke) remove your mouth and bring your hand from around his penis to cup itself over the helmet and then back down in one fluid movement and make sure there is a lot of fluid when you do this. Ensure your lips part to again encase the tip of his penis in the heat of your mouth. You can alternate using your hands on him and your mouth.  Several strokes with your hand, rubbing up and over and down and then your mouth licking at the tip to then draw it as far as you can go into your mouth (see Deep Throat Dating Workshop).

Keep rhythm up. Don’t keep changing once the tease is over. Start a steady rhythm and only increase it when you feel he is straining to come.  Then you need to go faster, but keep the rhythm smooth.  Towards the end you might have to move your mouth and masturbate him for speed, then when he’s nearly there encase him with your mouth again and feel him shoot against the back of your throat.  Swallow.  Come on ladies, you can do this.  It’s the sexiest thing you can do for a man  He views his spunk as a gift and your acceptance of him will ensure you get similar treatment (if not just tie him up and sit on his face).

If you need further pointers as to what he likes take his hand and place it around his penis to see what he does. How he stimulates himself. Then mimic.

Remember this above all.

A good blowjob is an art form. It’s a ballet of the mouth and hand. Treat it such and it won’t be a solo performance (unless you choose it to be).







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